Take Action! How to Meet Women and Get Dates

Table of Contents

Chapter One - Understanding Women

A. The Survey
B. How do Women Feel About Being Approached?
C. What do Women Want to Hear When You Approach Them?
D. How Do Women Evaluate a Man’s Physical Appearance?
E. How Do Women Feel About Giving Out Their Phone Number?
F. How Do Women Turn Men Down if They are Not Interested?
G. Other Surveys

Chapter Two – Developing a Positive Attitude About Approaching Women

A. The Importance of Having Women in Your Life
B. Why Men Are So Resistant to Working on Their Skills

Chapter Three – The Power of Confidence

A. Why is Confidence So Important
B. What if You Don’t Feel Confident
C. Myth: Women Don’t Like Nice Guys
D. Easy Going Attitude
E. My First Approach

Chapter Four – Take Action!

A. Be Proactive
B. Numbers Game
C. Always Be on the Lookout
D. Joey Tribiani as a Role Model
E. Do Not Procrastinate

Chapter Five – Rejection

A. Understanding Your Fear of Rejection
B. Dealing with Your Fear of Rejection
1. Acceptance
2. Viewing it Realistically
3. Controlling and Using Your Fear
C. Embrace Your Role

Chapter Six – Become More Appealing To Women

A. Have a Confident Attitude
B. Pay Attention to Grooming
C. Get in Shape
D. Dress Well
E. Don’t Get Hung Up On Your Looks

Chapter Seven – Who Should You Approach?

A. Rule #1 – Who You Should Approach
B. Rule #2 – Who You Should Avoid
C. Rule #3 – Many Irons in the Fire

Chapter Eight – Getting Near Her

A. Make Eye Contact and Smile
B. Get Close Enough to Talk

Chapter Nine - Breaking the Ice

A. Think of Something to Say
1. Sincerely Compliment Her
2. Find Something Topical to Discuss
3. Say the First Thing That Comes to Mind
4. Use a Pickup Line
B. Stay Relaxed and Give Her a Chance to be Receptive

Chapter Ten – Continuing the Conversation

A. Things You Should Do
B. Things You Should Avoid Doing
C. Asking for Her Phone Number

Chapter Eleven – Practice

A. Imagine Your Approach
B. Become a Friendlier Person
C. Visualization
D. Go to the Mall

Chapter Twelve – Where Can You Meet Women

A. Mall
B. Bookstore
C. Coffee Shop
D. Grocery Store
E. Bars
F. Online Dating
G. Dance Classes
H. Traveling and Airports
I. Gyms and Aerobics Classes
J. Your Regular Routine

Chapter Thirteen – Examples

A. Eating Lunch – Cute Waitress
B. Coffeehouse
C. Salesgirl at Mall
D. Bookstore
E. Airport
F. Advanced Example