Women love romantic pick up lines. They love them so much that they don’t even consider it a pick up line, they think it is just romantic!
When men meet a woman, they often go out of their way to avoid coming off too corny or over the top. But lets consider it from the woman’s point of view for a minute. As an example, lets picture the same guy, same girl, same situation, with the only difference being the approach the guy uses. The guy (lets call him “Joe”) is buying a cup of coffee at Starbucks when he sees a beautiful women reading a newspaper.
Joe gets his coffee and sits at a table across from her. After sitting for a couples of minutes he asks her what time it is. Then he follows up by asking something topical, maybe something about what is in the news, or if she comes here often because she looks very familiar to him. Then he keeps asking questions until they are having a conversation.
Here, Joe is much more direct and he decides to use a romantic pick up line approach. He gets his coffee and approaches the woman.
“Excuse me, I don’t usually do this, but I really couldn’t help myself. I noticed you as I was getting my coffee and you are just incredibly beautiful, I mean really striking. I was about to leave but I just couldn’t help myself, I had to try to meet you. My name is Joe . .”
The conversation continues with Joe asking her the usual questions to continue the conversation (see Take Action! book ).
Which of these approaches do you think is going to have more of an impact on her? I can tell you from experience that women are really blown away when you throw out all the stops and use a really romantic approach.
The key to succeeding is that you be candid and sincere. It only works if you really feel a strong attraction to the woman. Your sincerity will shine through and makes her feel special and attractive. When you confess to a woman that you find her so attractive that you couldn’t stop yourself from approaching her, she will be unbelievably flattered and a lot more likely to be attracted to you.
There is nothing wrong with using a more low-key approach and, depending on the circumstances, it may be your best bet. But if you see a girl that you really want to sweep off her feet, try a romantic pick up line and see what kind of reaction you get. It will really have an impact on her!